Dreamboys madness…..!!!!! LISA HAS LET HER MAN SLEEP WITH MORE THAN 150 OTHER WOMEN RICHARD ADAMS has slept with more than 150 women in the last three years - and girlfriend Lisa lets him. Lisa loves model and former Dreamboys stripper Richard so much; she's prepared to turn a blind eye to his countless flings. Sales executive Lisa, 25, and 27-year-old Richard, of Leytonstone, East London, spoke to SW's KHADIJA BUCKLAND about their unusual relationship. WE met seven years ago in Tenerife. I was on holiday with my girlfriends after my A-levels. He was on a modelling trip with the Dreamboys. I thought he was handsome in an exotic pretty-boy way - his dad is Thai. He wasn't my type but I was drawn to his sense of humour. We became close friends - although not lovers. We had this special mental connection - something I'd never felt with anyone else, not even girlfriends. Richard was always seeing two or three girls at a time and would tell me the details of his sexual exploits. I wasn't shocked. He was young and good-looking and if it was offered, I could see why he wouldn't turn it down. He was surprised I didn't judge him. But I knew Richard could never change. That was one of his faults. Things came to a head when I took a job in Japan. I realised I was falling in love with him but fought my feelings. I didn't want my heart broken. When I got back Richard threw me a party and we ended up in bed. It was wonderful dream but the next morning I woke up in a cold sweat. I was no longer Lisa the friend but Lisa the lover - and I was terrified of losing our friendship. I told him as long as he didn't bring the women to my door I would tolerate it. I could see the relief in his eyes. I had given him the carte blanche most men dream of. As soon as I had said it I wondered if I'd done the right thing. He faced temptation every day in his job and I had given him permission to satisfy his lust. We didn't speak about it until that evening when he was just about to leave for work - a gig in Birmingham. He looked so gorgeous. He'd just had a shower and his hair was glistening and wet. I knew some other woman would be running her hands through it that night. The thoughts overwhelmed me so much I heard a voice from deep inside me say: "You will shower after, won't you? I don't want another woman's smell on you when you get into bed with me?" He looked so upset I started to cry again. He was late for work but he promised me we would sort out some ground rules. I was happy but the minute I heard the door slam, I had visions of him having sex with some glamorous blonde after the show. He got in after 2am. I had spent the night making a list of don'ts. I didn't want him to bring women home or to give out his phone number and address. He had to shower afterwards, no matter where he was. I also didn't want him to tell me about the other women. He made two additional rules - that he wouldn't sleep with anyone more than once and he would always tell women he had a girlfriend. He knew that would please me. There wasn't a chance for him to get emotionally involved I was happier but thoughts of other women were and are constantly with me. The first two weeks after our pact were the rockiest. I thought he was having sex several times a day when my back was turned. But we moved in together shortly after that talk and things gradually settled down. Life has been brilliant. Three years on, we have kept to our bargain about his affairs. But I always know when Richard's been unfaithful. He smiles a lot and larks around. I know the signs - he displayed them when we were friends. Richard was as good as his word and stuck to the rules. I don't get so consumed by jealousy any more. I still have my bad times though when he's later than he says he'll be or if he doesn't phone, my mind plays tricks. But I know he'll never find anyone like me. What other woman would let him have his cake and eat it? If anyone had told me I'd put up with the constant flings, I wouldn't have believed them. But then I hadn't met and fallen in love with Richard. Love changes everything - it's changed me. In Richard I have almost the perfect man. He needs to sow his wild oats and get other women out of his system. When he hits 30, he'll have had his fill. And I'll be waiting.