Below there are list of all item s you can check off list to your upcoming wedding and a time calendar check list and budget planner also.

Formal attire
Bridal Headpiece
Bridal Gown 
Organizer or Planner
Wedding Etiquette Book
Napkins
Bridal Shoes
Book Matches
Bridal Handbag
Ribbon
Bridal Hosiery
Place cards
Bridle Garter(s)
Table Numbers
Bridal Shoes
Table Reserved Signs
Bridal Gloves
Something Old, New, Borrowed...
Lingerie
Guest Book
Bridesmaids' Dresses
Plume Pen
Bridesmaids' Shoes
Sixpence Coin for Your shoe
Mothers' Dresses
Toasting Glasses
Tuxedo Rental
Cake Knife and Server
Tuxedo Shoes
Engraving
Men's Formal Hose
Ring Bearer Pillow
Gown Preservation
Flower girl Basket
Wedding Stationary
Wedding Card Box or Basket
Engagement Announcements
Cake Top
Invitations
Wedding Favours
Announcements
Unity Candle
Reception Enclosure Cards
Aisle Runner
Response Cards 
Jewellery
Map/Direction Cards
Wedding Ring
Informal
Groom's Wedding Ring

Brides Breakdown in costs
All of the reception costs (i.e., room rental, food, and beverages).
Bridesmaids' bouquets and flowers.
Decorative accessories for the ceremony and reception.
Music for the ceremony and reception.
Groom's wedding gift and wedding band.
Bridesmaids' gifts and their hotel accommodations.
Photographer and photographs.
Wedding stationary.
Bride's wedding gown, accessories and trousseau.
All transportation and parking expenses for the ceremony and reception.

Grooms break down in costs
Bride's rings and wedding gift.
Marriage license.
Grooms-men's gifts.
Ties and gloves for the groom's party.
Bride's bouquet and corsage.
Corsages for mothers and grandmothers.
Boutonnieres for the groom's party.
Clergyman's fee.
Rehearsal dinner.
The honeymoon.
Wedding Planning Calendar

Nine to Twelve Months Before

Learn the facts about diamonds, and find the engagement ring.

Propose.

Set an initial budget.

Select a wedding date and time.

Announce your engagement in the newspaper.

Determine the type of wedding you want (day/night, indoor/outdoor)

Research availability of reception locations.

Select and book your reception location.

Find a caterer if not already provided by the reception facility.

Research availability of ceremony locations.

Select and book your ceremony location.

Determine who will officiate at the ceremony.

Determine how many guests you wish to invite.

Set aside blocks of hotel/motel rooms for out-of-town guests.

Get a band or DJ, get one early because they can get booked.

Decide if you want a bridal party, and if so, then how large.

Start to research your bridal gowns.

Start to research the groom’s formal wear/tuxedo.

Start to research bridesmaids' dresses.

Start to research formal wears for the groomsmen.

Compare and find a photographer.

Compare and find a videographer.

Find local florists and set appointments to look at their work.

Be sure that you get contracts from all the professionals you choose.

Create a bridal registry, and/or an engagement registry.

Visit bridal shows. Check the schedule of upcoming

Six to Nine Months Before

Start compiling the guest list (inform your families to do the same).

Select the attendants for your wedding party.

Purchase the bride's gown.

Purchase the groom's tuxedo.

Purchase bridesmaids' dresses.

Arrange for your groomsmen to be measured and reserve the tuxedos

Shop for the wedding dress, headpiece, veil, and other accessories.

Choose and reserve your florist.

Order the wedding cake

The parents of the groom should begin to arrange the Rehearsal

Dinner, and reserve a restaurant or make other arrangements.

Arrange for transportation for the wedding.

Four to Six Months Before

Make appointments for a physical exam with your doctor/dentist.

Check requirements for blood test and marriage license in your state.

Shop for wedding rings.

Select and order the invitations and stationery.

Make sure all the men's attire has been ordered.

Decide where to live after the wedding.

Complete the guest lists.

Begin shopping for trousseau.

Send your engagement announcement to the newspaper.

Inform mothers to select their dresses.

Select and order the men's attire.

Finalize honeymoon details and make the necessary reservations.

Two to Four Months Before

Confirm the menu and catering details with the caterer.

Prepare all maps and directions for the ceremony and reception.

Select your wedding rings.

Buy a wedding guest book.

Set the dates and times with the officiate for the rehearsal.

Plan the bridesmaids' luncheon and any other parties.

Determine your resources for designing and printing the program for the ceremony.

Finalize the florist details, photographer, videographer, and musicians.

Arrange the necessary accommodations for out-of-town guests.

Plan a rehearsal dinner, time and place.

Confirm the wedding cake details with the bake

Six to Eight Weeks Before

Mail invitations and announcements.

Prepare a portrait for the newspaper. Check your local newspaper.

Set appointment with photographer for your formal bridal portrait.

Select gifts for all your attendants.

Set appointments with any hairdressers and/or makeup artists.

Hire the limousine or other forms of transportation for the wedding.

Four to Six Weeks Before

Decide what your menu is going to be for the reception.

Buy a gift for the groom.

Schedule a final fitting for your gown so it can be ready.

Purchase a going away outfit.

Pick up your wedding rings.

Purchase (borrow) all wedding accessories

Confirm florist details and delivery times.

Plan the seating for the reception as well as other details for the ceremony and reception.

Start writing placement cards.

Make sure all bridesmaids' attire has been fitted.

Buy a gift for the bride.

Choose the music for your ceremony, first dance, and parent dances.

Two Weeks Before

Make arrangements to have your wedding gifts moved to your new home.

Handle business and legal details such as name changes, address changes, etc.

Prepare the wedding announcement for the newspaper.

Reconfirm your guests' accommodations.

Make sure all clothing and accessories for you and the bridal party are ready.

Get your marriage license and any blood tests, which are needed.

After all this you can fully enjoy the marriageable bliss you deserve..!